Who is EX of your life???

So firstly who is this EX? A girl or a boy? Probably this is the definition of our generation for ex. But in reality it’s our hateness and our bad experience due to which our relationship failed and that person turned out to be our ex. So basically we human gave the tag of ex. So if this is the definition of ex then every single person who gave us bad experience who broke our heart who made us cry who broke our trust is ex of our life. Now i know this might sound crazy but yes this is true. Now again question arise that with everyone we don’t hold relationship of love like gf bf right? No, like see i dont say that every person we meet we fall for them. There is some special connection special vibes for a specific person which we dont feel otherwise. You feel so special thinking about the person that you love. Or vice versa you try each and every way to make them feel special. You make them feel that they are not like every other person infact they are so different for you. Your lips smile when you see them. Your heart beats fast, butterflies in stomach. You just keep mesmerising about that person. And this feeling becomes even more stronger when felt from both the side. You name it as a relationship where you stay loyal to each other, you spend time together, you date frequently, you share conversation, good talks as well as bad talks, hang out for movies, parks, games and much more. You manage time for each other and do well with the promises you made with each other. You even get upset and fight with each other but that’s part of a relationship. Sometimes you get insecure and jealous for and by each other. This is all part of a healthy relationship because its natural. Some relationships works for longer period of time while some are just passing rays but all of them teach us some life learning lessons. Whats more important is how we treat each other when we end up things. Break ups are certain and we have no control over it because when we expect too much from a person despite knowing the limits things get affecting. Well there could be many reasons for breakup but when you choose that person over their imperfection then at the time of break up or at the time of arguments why that imperfection become important for you. May be they are now your reasons to end up the relationship. Sometimes even we get cheated in relationships and this is the reason that person becomes ex of our life. Of course we feel sad but how long it should bother you that is in your hand. You know very well that it can not be changed until the person is truly loyal and realize his/her mistake. But apart from that if the relationship didnt work that doesn’t mean you tag the person as your ex. Not ever person meet will be forever with you. Infact the good is that you learn many things from your first relationship and when you go for second one you become far more better person. Heart breaks are okay but breaking yourself for just that one person is not okay. This is bad for your menatal health. And also this will end up in an awkward situation for you both. Its so true that feelings are natural and even aftr long time when we see that person something hits up our mind and we just go back into the flashback. But then don’t forget how it ended up and in what circumstances it started. Don’t regret because if it meant to be together then it would have never ended and if ended then that’s final call. You learn many things for your mistakes and that makes you a better person whether it is a school test or a falling frndship or a losing relationship or a life exam. Be thankful that you learned something and move on happily. If you follow this therapy you will always be happy and if you hold a positive attitude then you will never get stucked between your heart and mind. Rather you will be able to take decision wisely and practically.