Why is women judged on the basis of clothing??

Why always a woman is judged based on her clothes???
If she is wearing a saree she is well behaved or if she is wearing salwar kameez she is from a good family.
If she is wearing jeans top, crop top, short skirt, shorts, she is defined as a bad woman or woman with no shame, or even worse characterless
But this is not the reality because we live in a society where every woman should be treated equally and most importantly she should be treated on basis of her behaviour, the way she takes care of everything, everyone, everywhere, rather than focusing on her clothes. We live in a society where the day-night hard-working woman takes care of her family too along with her job so that she can support her husband and be independent in all senses. She doesn’t think that going to the office with formal attire will make her a bad woman rather she will be more confident in herself. There are lots of people around us who believe that going to Kurti and dressing for the office is only proper clothes. When you dress up properly you will be more confident and you will get encouraged to work even more efficiently.

A woman manages everything very well in her life and even she adjusts where ever she goes but when it comes to their clothing people around her can not adjust. Even at that point, a woman is asked to adjust and the shameful thing about all this is that one woman can not support another woman in this.

Respect her choice and decision because she knows her dignity and limitations are being set for her… Wear shorts is not shameful but making her uncomfortable is shameful… She goes through many battles of her life and she also knows what is right and what is wrong for her… Society just needs to support her rather than make decisions for her…
If a girl gets raped then people will blame she was wearing improper clothes by which the man got attracted… Then what made a man attracted to rape a few months born baby?? What made a man rape an old age lady??? Well, this is just a question to all those who question a women’s clothing!!!


I believe a woman should be modern by thoughts and mentality then she can easily gel up the growing and fast-changing generation… And as a woman, we should accept her for what she has done for others as a housewife, as a working woman, as a mother, as a sister, as a daughter, as a friend… She plays the role of many personalities at a time and we just end up focusing on her clothes… She is already fighting many battles that don’t mean she is weak, indeed she is the strongest person in this whole damn world… She can go through any pain and still keep smiling… There are many things people make fun of her and she goes through all of that.. Don’t focus on what she is wearing, rather focus on how she handles everything and modern she is by thoughts, by way of living, by mentality..



W – Warrior and a great fighter of her life, no matter how tough the battle is she will always come out as a winner…
O – Obedient to everyone but also believe in taking decisions for herself… Obsessed with what she wants and never give up on it…
M – Maintain her class and standard, no matter how expensive it is and also hard-working… Mature enough to handle every situation of life…
E – Ease and cool both at the same time, not necessary to be modern by outfit but by mindset and mentality…
N – Nothing is impossible for her… No obstacles can stop her from achieving her goals whether as a working woman or as a housewife….

Midnight Thoughts

Who is EX of your life???



So firstly who is this EX? A girl or a boy? Probably this is the definition of our generation for ex. But in reality it’s our hateness and our bad experience due to which our relationship failed and that person turned out to be our ex. So basically we human gave the tag of ex. So if this is the definition of ex then every single person who gave us bad experience who broke our heart who made us cry who broke our trust is ex of our life. Now i know this might sound crazy but yes this is true. Now again question arise that with everyone we don’t hold relationship of love like gf bf right? No, like see i dont say that every person we meet we fall for them. There is some special connection special vibes for a specific person which we dont feel otherwise. You feel so special thinking about the person that you love. Or vice versa you try each and every way to make them feel special. You make them feel that they are not like every other person infact they are so different for you. Your lips smile when you see them. Your heart beats fast, butterflies in stomach. You just keep mesmerising about that person. And this feeling becomes even more stronger when felt from both the side. You name it as a relationship where you stay loyal to each other, you spend time together, you date frequently, you share conversation, good talks as well as bad talks, hang out for movies, parks, games and much more. You manage time for each other and do well with the promises you made with each other. You even get upset and fight with each other but that’s part of a relationship. Sometimes you get insecure and jealous for and by each other. This is all part of a healthy relationship because its natural. Some relationships works for longer period of time while some are just passing rays but all of them teach us some life learning lessons. Whats more important is how we treat each other when we end up things. Break ups are certain and we have no control over it because when we expect too much from a person despite knowing the limits things get affecting. Well there could be many reasons for breakup but when you choose that person over their imperfection then at the time of break up or at the time of arguments why that imperfection become important for you. May be they are now your reasons to end up the relationship. Sometimes even we get cheated in relationships and this is the reason that person becomes ex of our life. Of course we feel sad but how long it should bother you that is in your hand. You know very well that it can not be changed until the person is truly loyal and realize his/her mistake. But apart from that if the relationship didnt work that doesn’t mean you tag the person as your ex. Not ever person meet will be forever with you. Infact the good is that you learn many things from your first relationship and when you go for second one you become far more better person. Heart breaks are okay but breaking yourself for just that one person is not okay. This is bad for your menatal health. And also this will end up in an awkward situation for you both. Its so true that feelings are natural and even aftr long time when we see that person something hits up our mind and we just go back into the flashback. But then don’t forget how it ended up and in what circumstances it started. Don’t regret because if it meant to be together then it would have never ended and if ended then that’s final call. You learn many things for your mistakes and that makes you a better person whether it is a school test or a falling frndship or a losing relationship or a life exam. Be thankful that you learned something and move on happily. If you follow this therapy you will always be happy and if you hold a positive attitude then you will never get stucked between your heart and mind. Rather you will be able to take decision wisely and practically.

Midnight Thoughts

There is one phase in a life where a person just end up messing everything around them. They always feel that they are the one who is suffering from pain hatness breakups bitching and what not. They always blame others for their sadness until we act in their favor. No matter how hard we try to make them feel better to make things right to clear all grudges they will only react to what they want to. The person is always ready to find an excuse to break the bond and relations with others. Why? Because we as a human failed to understand their favor and tried to make them more happier then they are. We tried to make them realize that what ever happened with them was bad but that doesn’t mean its end of life. We tried to be better version of ourselves with them just to make them normal.

We tried to make relationship better and stronger. We tried to be a good human with them. We tried to negotiate as many terms as they want and even if we negotiated, the deal ended up from their end because they dont want to stay with us. We tried to provide our shoulders to them to just tell them that be relax we are with you. We actually tried to make them more calm and comfortable. We tried to be as old good friends with them. We tried to create new relationships. But all failed

We end up regreting that nothing worked but the fact is that the person itself is responsible for their own suffering. The person never tried to be good. The person should try to trust in faith and believe that whatever happened is just part and parcel of life. The person should try to let go things instead of letting go relations. Because for them it is just a relationship but for others it is the most precious and valuable assets of life. The person should not change themselves as a person instead should make changes in agreeing with relationships. Because every relationship will not hurt you until you choose to be same open with them. The person should try to be negotiative with new terms taking care of the one who is with them in relationship. (relationship can be anything). The person should try to move on with learnings instead of sticking to the same thing and holding it for years and years.

The person should try to be a better version that makes them happy and people around them happy because in this whole world there is no one who can just stay happy with themselves. You need some one to be there with you with whom you can stay happy. Even the patient feel good when nurse come around in rounds with a thought in a mind that he/she might get some good news to hear in matter of health.

When the person fails to try all of this, they will start losing everyone around them. They will just try and try to find peace around them all by themselves but in real they will get more and more alone because at some point people will leave. This behavior is need to be stopped. At long run people who use to be with that person will give up because if the person can not let go things and they just try to be a different person completely, that person will act the same with their loved ones if by mistake their emotions get hurt by the loved ones. They basically start using this behavior of them as a protection sheild to protect their emotions.

Well all of this is not required or need to be done because if you just control your emotions and be more rectified with your terms then you will never ever get hurt. But i guess this is the more difficult part of a life. A person literally becomes selfish just to protect their emotions. For them nothing is valuable and important then their emotions. They easily block others who try to hurt their emotions just to escape the situation. They just forget all the efforts and time others used to make them a normal. They just push others to a limit where we burst because the person is not trying to understand and then we become the drequella of their life.

They just simply end up with past and blaming others for the mess created in their life. No matter how hard we try to clear that mess the person can never get over it because they just dont want to. They just hold it all in their mind for years and years and we human end up deing with the guilt that we could not solve the things. They always present and behave and moreover make us realize that they are the victims. They need to be taken care of. No matter how badly we tru n understand their situation they can not even feel that how we are feeling. Even if we are sad upset or broken that dont even matter to them. All they can see is that their emotions and their feelings.

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